Bravado Or Bravery?

Bravado-Or-Bravery-Janine-GarnerMany of us only show a certain percentage of ourselves in social situations – the extent to which we are comfortable revealing our true personalities. I don’t think anyone would begrudge us this; after all, there is only so much one can share of oneself to those we don’t know very well.

But when it comes to the workplace, and giving of oneself in terms of performance – many are showing only the tip of the iceberg, and are not willing to expose the other seven-eighths of their ability and professionalism that lie beneath a slick, smooth surface.

Let bravery be thy choice, but not bravado – Menando

If someone asked you, how would you answer this question:

Are you brave in the way you do your job – or just full of bravado?

Both seem like similar concepts. They are almost identical words after all – so how could they be so different in practice?

Bravado. Being full of bluster and pretense, and false promises. The business culture of ‘I will give enough to look as though I am performing above expectations whilst secretly cruising my way to tomorrow, or next week – or my next role’.

If you have the ability to be one of the best, don’t waste it. ~ Janine Garner Tweet this!

Bravado is being content to sit on one’s hands while nodding furiously and giving every indication of leading change. It is ‘fake it while you make it’; not engaging wholly nor giving completely – despite having the ability to do so.

Bravery on the other hand is stepping not necessarily always outside the square, but along the edges of the business square. Questioning your own position and take on leadership. Constantly learning and posing new sets of challenges for oneself in terms of professional standards and goals.

Bravery is striving to be a change maker and improve the way things are done within the company, the sector, within the industry.

Bravery is reaching out to fellow leaders and those who are willing to shape policy and procedure, and give one hundred percent to drive business forward in an ethical and productive way.

Now, more than ever, the time has come within corporate to show your true colours as a leader. We are coming back to the real, to the authentic, and to the transparent. The ability to lead by example is absolutely critical to success in a market that is cynical and sick of inflated salaries – and inflated egos. So those who through fear or simple laziness are not willing to give one hundred percent of their business selves need to re-think their position.

Drop the much ‘ado’ about nothing.

And become one of the brave.

About Janine Garner

Janine Garner is the Founder of the Little Black Dress Group, the highly influential women's network which is determined to lead change for all those who want to see business done transparently, honestly and effectively. She is a keynote speaker, a brand marketing specialist and thrives on helping men and women to work together to make a real difference in the workplace.

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Comments

  1. Great take Janine, short, clear and powerful. And not the first time that courage and leading by example have been mentioned in this blogathon.

    Love the much ado about nothing quote and will definitely use it, quoting you as my inspiration.

    Thanks for a great contribution!

    Warm wishes

    David

  2. It takes true bravery to risk bravado. Good distinction, great post.

    Thanks Janine Garner for this beautiful piece!

  3. Hi Janine. Thank you for highlighting the significant difference between bravery and bravado. In my mind, the “puffed-up” bravado of some only serves to hide internal weaknesses – whereas, those with bravery do so in full light, not worried with “impression management” or political correctness.

    • Thank you so much for the positive response Susan. I absolutely agree with you – bravery means external and internal courage. It also often means being vulnerable, which challenges a lot of people in business.

  4. Awesome post Janine! My team is composed of both sides. Me and bravado are like oil and water, we truly do not mix well, while bravery always gets my full support.

  5. Hello Janine,

    Great post. The time has indeed come that we need more bravery and less bravado. Let’s go for it.

    Have a nice day,

    Joan

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