Being a Leader Doesn’t Protect You from Addictions

Leadership-Management-AddictionsNews stories often portray how people in high-level executive positions, such as CEOs, make fateful decisions to drink and drive. These executives find out quickly that even though they are in a powerful position and know influential people, that it doesn’t protect them from alcoholism or other addictions

Take the recent Fox Sports news story about the DUI arrest of Indianapolis Colts owner, Jim Irsay. The billionaire who was instrumental in building the Colts into an AFC powerhouse was arrested after he failed roadside sobriety tests. There are others in the c-suite crowd that are guilty of similar behavior.

Leaders are Wired for Addictions

Leaders have to make great decisions as part of their job, so, why do they make such bad decisions in their personal lives? Some research suggests that the way their brains are wired, predisposes them to addiction.

According to recent research, one of the reasons why leaders can become addicts is that many of them have more psychopathic and sociopathic tendencies. It’s these traits that propel these individuals into stardom, and also increases their likelihood of alcoholism.

The Pressures of Leadership

Many executives are prone to alcoholism because of job pressures. Along with pressure; obsession, a strong drive to achieve greatness, a strong desire to increase wealth and provide for their families, along with dedication – are all traits of many executives that can increase the pressure they feel. Getting a handle on the problems of pressure, before they become an even greater obstruction to your career and family, can help guide you through all the personal demons you face and can also give you alternative ways to deal with the problems that may arise, and are associated with the job.

Because of pressures, it can be easy for business executives to rely on alternative methods to stay awake, come up with fresh ideas, and maintain a high energy level. Unfortunately, the consequences of substance and alcohol abuse can become too much and lead to hazardous behaviors.

Serious Outcomes of Alcohol and Substance Abuse

There are serious consequences for those in a high management positions who abuse drugs and alcohol. Lack of concentration, slurred speech, inability to meet deadlines, and missed appointments are minor problems associated with the abuse. If you travel and entertain customers, you could also be at risk for a DUI. In addition to losing a driver’s license and facing fines and higher insurance premiums because of the conviction, you could also be at risk for jail time. If convicted, you could also lose your place of employment, because of your lack of responsibility and professionalism.

Getting a Handle on Addiction Problems

While drug and alcohol abuse can be a problem for some, it can be especially troublesome for executives in high-level positions. Quick decision-making skills, being a team leader, and taking charge of large sums of money are some of the many responsibilities of an executive. A leader can get a handle on their problems by seeking immediate treatment through a rehab program, where they’ll be taught to find root of the problem through behavioral therapy, detoxification, and counseling.  A beneficial program will also teach the executive about finding substitute solutions when things become too much to handle.

For those looking to achieve greatness, you can find alternative methods to prevent getting into an high pressure and abusive situations. Learning how to delegate job responsibilities, committing to the right balance of family and work life, and enlisting the help of an executive coach are all resolutions that can help keep you on the right path to enjoying your business success.

Please share your thoughts about leadership addictions in the comments section. 

The 3rd International Leadership Blogathon

3rd-International-Leadership-Blogathon-Todd-NielsenWell it is that awesome and wonderful time again. Time for the International Leadership Blogathon. Actually it is past time, but who is keeping track. Once again we are going to have another thrill ride through the world of leadership in the 3rd Annual International Leadership Blogathon. Last year I held the event and it was even more amazing than the first one, so much so that it crashed my website from all the traffic. This year I am better prepared.

The nuggets of wisdom during these blogathons, come from all over the world. They are inspirational and enormously valuable for any leader. The perspectives alone are invaluable to help all of us become better leaders.  Once again we will have leadership experts from every corner of the globe take part.

I believe this year is going to be better than last year’s event. Why? Well, it has to! They are always better. 🙂 This year it will be a little bit more low-key and laser focused. Last year there were a lot of articles and I about pulled my hair out. This year I am going to limit it to 20 really good articles that will be published Monday Through Friday for 4 weeks. It will start the first or second week in May.

What Is The International Leadership Blogathon?

Ok, so imagine leadership writers and experts from all over the world gathered together to share their leadership wisdom with the world. The experience and lessons of working with different cultures and organizations helps to fuel an avalanche of knowledge that is not easy to come by.

What I do is get a bunch of leaders and experts from every possible country I can. Then they each write an article between 400 to 800 words that explores some aspect of leadership. Last year we had many different topics and my heart lit up every time I read a new article. I mean, how often do you get to hear the inner thoughts on leadership from someone in Kenya, India, The Netherlands, New Zealand, the U.K., Japan and a bunch of other remote locations? It’s awesome! Subscribe now, and get ready for the flood of leadership wisdom to enter your inbox.

In addition to the writings we will hold some Tweet Chat’s and maybe even a Google Hangout to chat about the articles and all things leadership.

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Who Can Write For The International Leadership Blogathon & Why Should You?

Well, let me address the why first. Usually the best reason to write a guest post is to receive valuable backlinks to your own site from a reputable domain, to help grow your own platform, and get your knowledge in front of a bunch of people that might not know who you are. I get a lot of traffic, and I have a huge social network in which I will be broadcasting all of the articles – every single day. I’ll will also invite you to a private Facebook group for all the bloggers to collaborate.

So who should write? Well anyone throughout the world that has leadership knowledge, that they want to share with the world. But there are some qualifications:

  1. You must be able to write in English
  2. You need to be able to write 400 to 800 words in good grammar and punctuation. We will help out as much as we can, but last year I spent way too much time re-writing articles that had great messages but were written poorly. So reach out to others that know English before submitting your article.
  3. You have to have a Twitter, Facebook, and LinkedIn account and actively participate on social networks. You do not need to have a big following.
  4. You must be willing to commit to sharing all the articles on social networks and not just your article.
  5. You must be able to enter and edit an article in WordPress.
  6. The post needs to be all original work from the author, and CANNOT be shared on another site. (Google does not like that)
  7. Your topic needs to be related to leadership or a leadership subtopic. Ask below in the comments section, or send me a message if you are unsure about your topic. It could also be about the intricacies of leadership in your country of residence.
  8. Your article needs to be in the system within a week of your acceptance into the blogathon.  We need to time to get everything setup and organized.
  9. You need to love leadership and want to engage with other writers by commenting on all the articles and helping to drive more discussion.
  10. You must be willing to write a short summary post, pointing to the article on your own blog, if you have one.
  11. The article must have valuable content, and not be an advertisement for your services.

I am expecting a lot of interest this year, the same as last year. So if you are interested in writing, please fill out the form below and submit it ASAP. I look forward to a successful blogathon, I know my readers will love this content and it will be a hugely successful event.

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This is going to be an exciting event with wisdom oozing from all over the globe. Stay tuned for more information. Please share your thoughts below along with what kind of articles are you hoping to see?

Leadership Trait to Ponder: Appreciation

appreciation-leadership-management-Todd-NielsenToday the leadership trait to ponder is Appreciation.  I see so many leaders that fail miserably in appreciating all that their staff has done. They congratulate a few that rode on the backs of many others, or they criticize on one hand, and show appreciation on the other. I see many leaders that kick-themselves and their staff for not achieving an objective, yet fail to appreciate all the was actually accomplished.

The dictionary defines Appreciation as: the recognition and enjoyment of the good qualities of someone or something; a full understanding of a situation; a feeling of being grateful for something; an ability to understand the worth, quality, or importance of something; an ability to appreciate something.

Below are some of my favorite quotes to help inspire and illustrate Appreciation. As you read these quotes, think about how you can exemplify this leadership trait in yourself.

Quotes on Appreciation

Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough” ~Oprah Winfrey

The two hardest tests on the spiritual road are the patience to wait for the right moment and the courage not to be disappointed with what we encounter.” ~Paulo Coelho

Forget yesterday – it has already forgotten you. Don’t sweat tomorrow – you haven’t even met. Instead, open your eyes and your heart to a truly precious gift – today.” ~Steve Maraboli

When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive—to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love—then make that day count!” ~Steve Maraboli

Appreciation is a wonderful thing. It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well.” ~Voltaire

Be happy with who you are and what you do, and you can do anything you want.” ~Steve Maraboli

If a man cannot understand the beauty of life, it is probably because life never understood the beauty in him.” ~Criss Jami

If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant: if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome.” ~Anne Bradstreet

The invariable mark of wisdom is to see the miraculous in the common.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

What do you think about when you ponder Appreciation? Please share your thoughts in the comments section.

Silos – If We All Don’’t Get There, No One Gets There!

silo-silos-leadership-management-Todd-NielsenSilos are Ugly! Some time ago I worked with an organization that offered telecommunication services (60% of revenue) as well as IT services (40% of revenue). The two service types were very complimentary to each other, and each had the potential to boost and feed revenues and profits on both sides of the company. Unfortunately, there was a big frustrating and annoying problem that caused contention, fighting of resources, hurt feelings, and lack of innovation. That problem was a big wall, which in the business world, we call… silos!

Silos can exist between individuals, teams, departments, offices, and divisions. It is frustrating to see the jockeying of power, political games, finger pointing, and contention set in and begin to rot the company from the inside out. I remember talking to an employee at this company and he told me that whenever his boss asks him to do something, he just shakes his head say’s “OK,” and then goes and does what he thinks should be done instead. Even within the teams there were silos of individuals.

There was another team that was in charge of projects. That team and the others were constantly at war with each other over resources. During projects that involved telecommunication and IT, the two sides often fought on architecture and other tangible resources that caused projects to go consistently sideways . They fought over marketing dollars, and other resources. Then after it was all said and done, poor customer satisfaction caused the pointing of fingers at each of the teams and then at the sales department for supposedly selling the project too low. It was a sad state of affairs. 

The idea of, “If We All Don’’t Get There, No One Gets There,” is meant to encapsulate the idea that a company is made of its parts, all the way down to the individuals, and the entities in the organization that the individuals belong to. One department or team, rarely can be successful on its own. They require tangible (People, reports, etc.) and intangible (Time, collaboration, etc.) resources from other areas of the company.

Destroying Silos

For these reasons, silo destroying should be a super power that all leaders strive to master. To overcome this problem at this company I walked the entire organization through a workshop and series of steps as defined below. These are not end-all steps and depend in some respects on the maturity of the organization and depth of the problem:

  1. Define The Core Purpose – I know this looks and sounds like a mission statement, and it could be, depending on the situation, although it can take more than one form. The idea was that people need to unite under ONE core purpose. Most mission statements are long and boring and full of mind numbing language. A good one is short and inspiring. The same is true for a mission statement, manifesto, or whatever else you call your core purpose. Once we defined this core purpose, people began to see that their “world,” in their team or department, was actually pretty small compared to the encompassing purpose of the entire organization.
  2. Define The  Core Objective – Now that you know why you exist, what your core purpose is as an organization – people need to know where they are going. It’s important to have a unifying point that everyone is striving to achieve. Not three points, one point. This also needs to inspire people so that they realize that they will never live to see that day of achievement unless their activities promote collaboration from other areas in the company. They can’t get there on their own.
  3. Align Behaviors and Goals – This is usually a very complicated process, one in which I have met few that are skilled in. We setup short-term objectives and goals and aligned the behaviors and actions of everyone in the company with that core objective. I am simplifying this somewhat, but it brought down the inspiring purpose and objective down to each person’s everyday level and helped them see that their work effects the whole organization.
  4. Track Like Crazy – Goals and behavior have to be managed through. We tracked everything that we were trying to achieve, and were quick about making course corrections when we got off the course towards our core objective.
  5. Communicate Until It Is Annoying – Uncertainty was prevalent and to prevent a mass exodus and decline in morale, we met often, and communicated often. People just want to know what is going on and want to feel some security.
  6. Create a Culture of Learning – This seems a little off topic from the others. The idea is that now that you have people’s behavior aligned with the core objective, now is the time to feed them with knowledge that will help unite them, and foster innovation. When everyone is learning it changes and catapults the idea generation in a company. This was done through reading of books, training sessions, employee taught training, and other methods. Little spurs innovation like a bunch of people learning new things that make them more knowledgeable and able to perform their jobs.

Silos can be stressful, but by adapting the philosophy of, “If We All Don’’t Get There, No One Gets There!” and implementing these 6 steps, a leader can push through this and get the organization in sync with each other. Of course there is a lot of messy work along the way, but together you will be able to get through it much more easily.

Please share your thoughts on destroying silos in the comments section.

Leadership Trait to Ponder: Trust

Trust-Leadership-Leader-Todd-Nielsen-TraitToday the leadership trait to ponder is Trust.  The dictionary defines Trust as: the firm belief in the reliability, truth, or ability of someone or something. Over the years, I have grown to value this trait greatly, it is so easy for a leader to lose the trust of their staff through one false move. If a leader does not take the time to build trust among their staff, and to avoid things that betray that trust, their ability to lead will be greatly diminished. Below are some of my favorite quotes to help inspire and illustrate this trait. As you read these quotes, think about how you can exemplify this leadership trait in yourself, and build trust among those that you lead; it might take time, but it is worth it.

Quotes on Trust

It takes 20 year to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it.” ~ Warren Buffet

The glue that holds all relationships together – including the relationship between; the leader and the led is trust, and trust is based on integrity.” ~ Brian Tracy

You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don’t trust enough.” ~ Frank Crane

Wise men put their trust in ideas and not in circumstances.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Trust men and they will be true to you; treat them greatly, and they will show themselves great.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Put more trust in nobility of character than in an oath.” ~ Solon Ancient Greek Lawmaker

Trust, but verify.”  ~ Ronald Reagan

When people honor each other, there is a trust established that leads to synergy, interdependence, and deep respect. Both parties make decisions and choices based on what is right, what is best, what is valued most highly.”  ~ Blaine Lee

We need people in our lives with whom we can be as open as possible. To have real conversation with people may seem like such a simple, obvious suggestion, but it involves courage and risk.” ~ Thomas Moore

What do you think about when you ponder trust and what can a leader do to build trust with those they lead? Please share your thoughts in the comments section.

A Kindergarten Lesson For Leadership: Start Sharing!

Leadership-Sharing-Management-People-Todd-NielsenIn the book “All I Really Need To Know, I Learned in Kindergarten” author Robert Fulghum gives tips for everyday life; including “clean up your messes”, “wash your hands”, and “flush.” These are all great things to do, regardless of age or location. These lessons can be directly applicable to great leadership, one of which is to SHARE.

Great leaders knows when and what to share with their team. Sharing the right information helps increase understanding, improve accountability, and helps bring teams closer together.

“Observing and commenting, is a piece of cake. Experiencing and sharing, that is a piece of work.” ~  Toba Beta

I am amazed at leaders who have the attitude that everyone should know as much as them. Then when a project does not go the way it should, the employee, instead of the manager is the one that suffers the consequences. If we as leaders want people to be successful, and want the teams and organizations we lead to be successful we have to set people up for success and show people how to do things instead of just showing them.

We have to of course strike a careful balance between empowering people and educating them. There are times that we have to let people fail in order progress, but when important clients and projects on the line, there is not substitute for people focused leadership, where the leader focuses and shares his or her knowledge with the employee.

Sharing can go a lot father than “know-how” as well. The fist thing that comes to mind is your contact list. Leaders are generally much better connected than the average employee, but how often do we open up our address books so that our employees can have access to people that might be able to help them with personal or professional problems.

The other thing that the average leader has more of then employees, is written knowledge. I have a book shelf in my office that is bulging from books. Plus I have hundreds of audio books, e-books, as well as tons of electronic reports, white papers, case studies and more. Almost every time I have a 1-on-1, some issue comes up, that I can help them with. Often I just coach them through the problems, but just as often, I want them to “learn to fish,” so I lend them a book or another piece of knowledge so that they can learn themselves on how to overcome the challenge.

When this “sharing” happens, the benefits can include:

Increased Morale – Teammates are less prone to believing rumors that are bound to arise when working with a group of people. Rumors are not always maliciously started, but once they grab hold can be a burden to the progress of a project and can jeopardize its success.

Increased Efficiency – The possibility of two subgroups completing the same task will be minimized. In addition, teammates will be more likely strive to come up with solutions that work together.

Increased Ownership – Each individual team member will feel a part of the larger group, and will take more pride in the completed project as a whole, rather than just their one piece.

Remember those lessons we all learned when we were young, and apply them to your leadership style. Please share your thoughts in the comment section.

Leadership Trait to Ponder: Simplicity

Simplicity-Todd-NielsenToday the leadership trait to ponder is Simplicity.  The dictionary defines Simplicity as: the quality or condition of being easy to understand or do; something that is simple or ordinary but enjoyable; lack of subtlety or penetration. Below are some of my favorite quotes to help inspire and illustrate this trait. Simplicity can be one of the most difficult things to accomplish. I have seen compensation plans and processes that were so complicated that all it brought was disdain and frustration towards the leader. As you read these quotes, think about how you can exemplify this leadership trait in yourself.

Quotes on Simplicity

 

Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.” ~Leonardo da Vinci

 

Simplicity in character, in manners, in style; in all things the supreme excellence is simplicity.”~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

 

Simplicity is the glory of expression.” ~Walt Whitman

 

“There is no greatness where there is no simplicity, goodness and truth.” ~Leo Tolstoy

 

“The art of simplicity is a puzzle of complexity.” ~Douglas Horton

 

Simplicity is the most difficult thing to secure in this world; it is the last limit of experience and the last effort of genius.” ~George Sand

 

“Simplicity and repose are the qualities that measure the true value of any work of art.” ~Frank Lloyd Wright

 

“I feel that the simplicity of life is just being yourself.” ~Bobby Brown

 

“Simplicity is the final achievement. After one has played a vast quantity of notes and more notes, it is simplicity that emerges as the crowning reward of art.” ~Frederic Chopin

 

“I have just three things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are your greatest treasures.” ~Lao Tzu

What do you think about when you ponder Simplicity? Please share your thoughts in the comments section!

Leadership Trait to Ponder: Respect

leadership-respect-management-todd-nielsenThis week the leadership trait to ponder is Respect.  I was once facilitating some activities with an organization to determine the values of the company. Respect came out as the number one most requested value from the employees. Through some subsequent conversations, I discovered the reason it was so popular. It was because no one was feeling respected by the CEO or management.

The dictionary defines respect as: a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements; an act of giving particular attention. Below are some of my favorite quotes to help inspire and illustrate Respect. As you read these quotes, think about how you can exemplify this trait in your leadership activities.

Quotes on Respect

I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.~Albert Einstein

Respect for ourselves guides our morals, respect for others guides our manners. ~Laurence Sterne

 Respect is what we owe; love, what we give. ~Philip James Bailey

 Respect is one of the greatest expressions of love. ~ Miguel Angel Ruiz

How would your life be different if…You stopped making negative judgmental assumptions about people you encounter? Let today be the day…You look for the good in everyone you meet and respect their journey.” ~ Steve Maraboli

Respect yourself and others will respect you.” ~ Confucius

Always treat people as ends in themselves, never as means to an end.” ~ Immanuel Kant

When we treat people merely as they are, they will remain as they are. When we treat them as if they were what they should be, they will become what they should be. ” ~ Thomas S. Monson

If you want to be respected by others, the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you.” ~ Fyodor Dostoyevsky

What do you think about when you ponder Respect? Please share your thoughts in the comment section.

Leadership Trait to Ponder: Hard Work

Leadership-Hard-Work-Dedication-Todd-NielsenToday the leadership trait to ponder is Hard Work.  This might sound a little bit odd of a thing to ponder. I think most leaders and managers probably believe they work too many hours as it is; but being busy and working long hours, does not necessarily mean you are working smart or even working hard. The dictionary defines Hard Work as: “Characterized by care and perseverance in carrying out tasks; tending to work with energy and commitment; persistence in action to carry out our tasks, no matter the size of the obstacle or reason to not continue to carry on.” Below are some of my favorite quotes to help inspire and illustrate what it takes to be a great leader, through the characteristic of working hard. As you read these quotes, think about your own work ethic, and how you exemplify this leadership trait within yourself. Later this week I will be talking more about this topic and sharing the most important lesson I was ever taught. 

Quotes on Hard work

A dream doesn’t become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work.” ~Colin Powell

There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.” ~Colin Powell

The price of success is hard work, dedication to the job at hand, and the determination that whether we win or lose, we have applied the best of ourselves to the task at hand.” ~Vince Lombardi

Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration. Accordingly a genius is often merely a talented person who has done all of his or her homework.” ~Thomas Edison

I do not know anyone who has got to the top without hard work. That is the recipe.” ~Margaret Thatcher

Nothing ever comes to one, that is worth having, except as a result of hard work.” ~Booker T. Washington

I do not believe in excuses. I believe in hard work as the prime solvent of life’s problems.” ~James Cash Penney

Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.” ~Thomas Edison

Temporary success can be achieved in spite of lack of other fundamental qualities, but no advancements can be maintained without hard work.” ~William Feather

No great achiever – even those who made it seem easy – ever succeeded without hard work.” -Jonathan Sacks

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Leadership Trait to Ponder: Strength

Leadership-trait-strength-todd-nielsenFor the rest of the year, every Monday, (unless I change the day :-)) I will release this new series on leadership traits. I have a whole years worth of ‘trait posts’ queued up and I really hope they inspire you to be better at the weeks given trait. I introduced this idea with Gratitude in November an it was well received. So with this being week one of 2014 lets get started.

Today the leadership trait to ponder is Strength.  The dictionary defines Strength as: the quality or state of being physically strong; the ability to resist being moved or broken by a force; the quality that allows someone to deal with problems in a determined and effective way. Wow, have you ever really considered the impact of that definition of strength in your leadership? The effects could be enormous. Below are some of my favorite quotes to help inspire and illustrate Strength. As you read these quotes, think about how you can exemplify this leadership trait in yourself this week. 

Quotes on Strength

When restraint and courtesy are added to strength, the latter becomes irresistible.” ~Mohandas Gandhi

 

Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.” ~Khalil Gibran

 

Shallow men believe in luck. Strong men believe in cause and effect.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

Real strength is not just a condition of one’s muscle, but a tenderness in one’s spirit.”  ~McCallister Dodds

 

 When something bad happens you have three choices. You can let it define you, let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you.” ~Unknown

 

Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.” Mohandas Gandhi 

 

Do not pray for easy lives. Pray to be stronger men.” ~John F. Kennedy

 

Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle.” ~Napoleon Hill

 

Where there is no struggle, there is no strength.” ~Oprah Winfrey

What do you think about when you ponder Strength? Do you have a favorite quote of your own on strength? Please share your thoughts below!

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