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#People and #Change consultant, 20 years experience in #Organisation #Development. #Executive #coach. Very experienced #facilitator and #team #developer.

Ditch the Fad-Surfing, Model the Universal Truths!

Ditch-the-Fad-Surfing-Model-the-Universal-TruthsChange is hard. Continuous change is draining. Leading change is hardest of all. Leaders have to deal with a double-whammy. They have to make sense of change for themselves, while simultaneously helping others to navigate its choppy waters. And there are no magic bullets, despite what the book titles tell you. At best you can make the change less painful or shorter in duration, or ensure that the pain is less deep and disabling.

Yet so many organizations and, by implication, leaders, stubbornly adhere to the ‘magic bullet’ theory. I spent many years at one of the big 4 consulting firms. We used a phrase there about magic bullets that has stuck with me. We called it fad-surfing, and in retrospect we were pretty cynical about peddling it.

You know what I mean? Last year we went Lean, because Results Based Accountability hadn’t quite stuck the year before, and Kaizen of two years ago was too “Eastern” for our people. This year we have discovered Appreciative Inquiry and we are planning a big roll out, because we are convinced this is the tool that is finally right for our organization…

Now my purpose is not to disparage the tools – each of the ones mentioned have hugely positive potential as change vehicles. And for leadership teams that need to make a difference, quickly, I can see their seductive effect. But it won’t happen unless leaders realize that change happens in our hearts, and hearts drive behavior.

Tools and processes in themselves are necessary but insufficient conditions for effective change. People out there are change-weary, cynical and jaundiced. They have been sold the “next big thing” that will make the difference many times before. And they don’t believe it!

A leading UK leadership expert, Keith Grint, used a phrase that resonated with me. These magic bullets create a BOHICA effect: “Bend over, here it comes again!”

Many of the fads that leaders love to surf are genuinely based on good theory and practice. It’s not the tools that cause the problem, but the leader mind-set. Fad-surfers’ see the tool as the answer. But people are always the answer, never tools –and people change from their heart.

The heart to heart process is the foundation of good change the world over. Process too often wins out over humanity, and lazy application of cosmetic tinkering (looks good on the action plans) seems more seductive than the hard graft of building and nurturing positive, mutually challenging relationships.

So here’s my plea. Alongside the tools, in fact before the tools, let’s breed leaders who practice some of the fundamental, universal truths about people and change. Here are a few of mine to kick off the debate; you will surely have some of your own:

“People believe what you do, not what you say.” – Translation, we look our leaders in the eye and ask, “Do I believe in this person?” We don’t ask, “Do I like the look of this tool?” We want authentic connection that we can believe in, not the latest version of the truth.

“What you give is what you get.” – Translation, treat people as units of production and that is what they will become. Treat people as vessels of potential and over time they will reward your faith.

“People change from the heart outwards” – Translation, engage in heart to heart dialogue, do not rely on top down process roll-outs. Light small bonfires of change by example and join them together rather than trying to impose the exhortation to sign up to your latest fad. That’s what the cynics are expecting – and they are cynical with good reason.

“If you are selling hammers, you will only look for nails.” – Translation, teach people about aspirational change, not how to re-order their world to meet specific project objectives. When they believe you, they will repay your faith many times over by finding and sharing better ways to make their world a happier, healthier and more effective place.

Challenge others to take personal responsibility by doing so yourself.” ~ David Hain Tweet this

“Good practice is contagious – but so is bad practice!” – Translation, undertake regular review at ground level, look people in the eye and ask for feedback, listen deeply to what they say and adjust plans in response. Human beings respond deeply to authenticity, and we can spot the absence of it a mile off! Have the courage to role model change and the honesty to accept feedback when it’s not inspiring others.

“Challenge others to take personal responsibility by doing so yourself.” – Translation, we get inspired by others who can see in us what we are often blind to in ourselves. Not through false positives based on seductive models. Genuine encouragement to fulfill our potential is far sexier than the latest big thing. Leaders need to seek partners in aspiration, not converts to a tool or process.

If more leaders approached change with these principles in mind rather than a promoting programme based, fad surfing mind-set, people will make a real and sustainable difference in their place of work. Maybe one day we will finally see “the last of the BOHICANS”!

Lessons on Leadership and Life from a Football Match

Cardiff City Footbal - LeadershipLosing a game is heartbreaking. Losing your sense of excellence or worth is a tragedy. ” ~ Joe Paterno

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I’m a big football fan, season ticket holder at Cardiff City, my local team in the UK.   We’re a good side, among the best in England’s second tier league.  3 weeks ago we played a national cup final, at Wembley Stadium, against Liverpool Football Club, arguably the most famous team in the world.  They’re pretty close to the top of the Premier League, which we’re battling to get into.  Their team on the day cost £450m, the most expensive player £35m.  Our full team, including seven substitutes, was pieced together for £4 million.

You could have made a lot of money with a winning bet on Cardiff. Every pundit agreed – if Liverpool turned up anywhere near their best, we had virtually no chance.  The game was watched live by 90,000 passionate supporters and broadcasted live across the world.  It was set to be a valediction for Liverpool.

They duly won, we lost.  So why did it mean so much to me that I’ve chosen to tell the blogosphere about it?

A result is just a measure – it doesn’t tell you anything about the game.  And in the game, there were many lessons for life and for anyone, like me, who studies and promotes leadership. As I trudged 4 miles back to my car and spent the next 4 hours driving home on the same road as most of the 35,000 defeated fans, I had plenty of time to reflect on the day.  And what started as a journey into depression ended up as a triumph of inspiration that I thought might be worthy of sharing.

Lesson 1 – When you win, do it with class

The match was lost in the most dramatic, heartbreaking way possible.  After full time and extra time finished all square, there was a penalty shoot-out and we lost 3-2. When we missed the critical penalty, in the pandemonium of victory celebrations, 3 of the Liverpool players went straight to our side to commiserate the guy who missed and congratulate the entire Cardiff team on the way they played the game.  Classy winners who stayed humble in the hubris of victory, they recognized how fine the line is between winning and losing

Lesson 2 – You can lose, and still win

Every single Cardiff player gave his last drop for the shirt. In the last 10 minutes of extra time, when many of them were going down with cramps, they somehow found the strength and belief to equalize with two minutes to go.   They must have been completely dispirited to lose having given so much and been so close.  But their manager talked to the world about losing with dignity, giving credit to the winners, and learning lessons to draw from in their next battle.  And with these words he re-framed losing into something much more meaningful which resonated with millions across the world who could reflect on their own battles.

Lesson 3 – The team is the most powerful vehicle that we have as human beings

Last year we had a team with a few stars who were capable of great things, but when the chips were down, they put themselves first.  This year, under a new manager, we have a team with no acknowledged stars, but whose spirit and willingness to fight for their colleagues means that they regularly exceed the sum of their parts.  And very quickly, the fans spotted the difference and became an even more passionate ‘twelfth man’.  The ‘one for all’ attitude they can see on the pitch transmits itself far beyond the white lines to inspire greater support for the cause they can see the players so obviously believing in.

Lesson 4 – We all need role models

Our new manager has quickly, by example, fashioned a group in his image through what he demands of and rewards in others.  When asked about how he would console the poor guy who missed the critical penalty, he replied that the team was more important than individuals and they would all take care of that.  You can see the way he behaves transmitting itself to his players.  And you can see examples of his leadership values all over the pitch.  This year we have leaders throughout the team – people who take responsibility not just for what they do, but for challenging each other to dig deeper.  Resilience is so much easier if you know others will give you all they have, while demanding everything you have got. And a leader has to somehow convey values that are demonstrated especially when he has no immediate control.

Lesson 5 – Moments of small, quiet heroism happen all the time

From the defender who literally put his body on the line in front of a certain goal, to the cramping midfielder who played the last 15 minutes on one leg, there were moments of heroism all over the pitch.  Each one seemed to inspire another – acts of courage were contagious and the more one player gave for the team, the more the team as a whole responded. It struck me that I should register these moments more often in other areas of my life and let people know that I have noticed.

Lesson 6 – It won’t take the recession to end to give people back their pride

Wales had 3 big sporting moments that weekend.  Our rugby team won an acclaimed prize by beating the national nemesis (England) away from home. Our champion boxer and Britain’s only world champion retained his title. And Cardiff City lost – with pride, courage and dignity.  Yet in many ways, theirs was to my mind the most inspirational achievement of all.  People where I live were walking slightly taller that morning after the game – somehow they found a common inspiration, even from those who don’t follow the team every week.  Glorious failure has ignited a common sense of civic pride, and when the hangovers cleared, productivity wilrose again.  How many opportunities do we have to engender that pride (in a smaller and less public way) every day?

Final lesson – Disaster, like triumph, is an opportunity if we chose to see it that way

The regular season has 11 games left, all against teams less endowed than Liverpool.  If Cardiff can harness the spirit generated at Wembley, promotion to the Premier League and untold riches can really be ours.  If the players believe in what they did, recreate the resilience formula and inspire generate even 80% of Wembley’s support from fans, they can truly achieve the ultimate goal.  The manager knows that and has already begun to refocus the team and the Cardiff public on the next game, using glorious failure as inspiration for eventual triumph.  Isn’t that just like life?

A legendary Liverpool manager voiced the quote below.  I realized yesterday that I’ve always undervalued it.  Today, as a leader and being in the business of inspiring leadership in others, it means more than ever.

“Some people think football is a matter of life and death. I assure you, it’s much more serious than that.” ~ Bill Shankly 

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